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If you had to choose between being an alcoholic or drug addict which would you choose? I’m almost inclined to go with drug addict. Why? Because I can’t imagine what it must be like to live in this society as an alcoholic. You don’t walk into a restaurant, pull out a menu and find “heroin” and “crack cocaine” listed as a favorite beverage to accompany your meal. How about “A meth Happy Hour!”

Seems if you’re trying to kick the habit as an alcoholic, there are many more triggers, billboards, tv commercials, and happy hours that glorify drinking. I’m not against drinking. I’m a TEXAS GIRL…I like my beer and yes in a bottle - don’t dare pour into one of those fancy smancy glasses!! But ABUSE seems to take on a whole new life of its own interfering with work, family, and at worst one’s physical health.

So my question is what are the options for alcoholics? Does AA work? How does a group of individuals all with the dire desire to abuse alcohol get together, sit around, talk about alcohol and help each other quite?

I’m not bashing AA. I would imagine (hopefully) lots of individuals have successfuly found sobriety by attending. I have lots of reasons for asking these questions some are personal and some to broaden my perspective on the issue.

 

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I am so HAPPY!! American Idol is coming on tonight.  This is my favorite part of the show.  The TRIP to Hollywood, the big stage, all the contestants watching.  This is where you get to see a lot of  personalities unfold and real talent begin its development.

YAHOO!!

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I was under the impression that prescription drugs are for helping people who are sick or to prevent and stave off other serious medical conditions like high-blood pressure, diabetes, etc.

I've recently been aware of the increasing reports on KIDS taking and abusing these prescribed medications to "benefit" from the side-effects.  Although this sounds absurd to me, apparently, it's drawing in an alarming number of "experimenters" a day....just try 2500 kids a day use these drugs for the first time, and no not to cure an ailment but to get high. 

I also learned that prescription drugs are the number drug of choice for 12 to 13 year olds.  Secondly, teens abuse prescription drugs more than any illicit street drug, well besides marijuana.  This was all shocking NEWS to me. 

As a parent, I would love to know more about the warning signs for presciption drug abuse.  Are there more relevant tale-tale signs other than missing pills?  I have a few meds around, but nothing I would consider dangerous...just antibiotics.  BUT I must stay alert and not pretend that my kids, nephews, neices and the like are immune to becoming a victim of this "other form" of addicition. 

Funny (well, not funny) thing is there is a COUPON in today's newspaper that says, bring in this coupon to your local pharmacy and get 7 free pills.  This was for some sleeping disorder and the drug is a prescribed medication.  Put two and two together and any clever kid can get a quick helping of prescribed drugs.  If these drug companies put "free coupons" in our newspapers where anyone can get a hold of them then this is just one more thing we parents have to be on the lookout for.

I have a feeling the kids are only hearing how fun these meds are but don't read all that fine print on the back of the long pamphlet tucked inside.  WARNING: SERIOUS SIDE-EFFECTS MAY OCCUR.  DIZZINESS, SEIZURES, LOSS OF APPETITE, NAUSEA, THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE, ANXIETY, HALLUCINATIONS, MENTAL PROBLEMS, SKIN RASH, DEATH!

I would feel better if drug companies didn't put free coupons in newspapers. i would feel better if the newspaper people wouldn't let them.  It's hard enough and there's enough to worry about instead of adding this other factor into the equation.

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I admit I'm not a scientist.  I don't know the last thing about DNA reproduction, but eating a cow that's been cloned on purpose or without my knowledge (perhaps served at a restaraunt) just scares the living daylights out of me.

How can the FDA claim that cloned meat or products is safe to consume if we "just started cloning" animals.  I think I'm going to have a hard time making sure my family and I don't eat these products since it appears that there will be no regulation to "label cloned products" - EEK!

 - Concerned Eater

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I would consider myself a young-hip mother.  I pick my battles with my children very carefully.  There are just some things not worth fighting over - the length of their hair, the color of the fingernails, or if they want to put an earing in their ear.  Instead I preserve my energy for the bigger battles that lie ahead of us:  Education, Charity, Selecting Decent Friends, Awarenss of cultural differences and making  defending causes they truly care for a priority.

My kids created profiles on Myspace.  Myspace?  This is the popular online social networking site you can post pictures, leave comments for your friends and network.  Child predators lurk in every corner via this site and prey on unsuspecting, unmonitored and uneducated kids.

I faced a lot of scrutiny for allowing my kids to be on here!  My concern is that kids are doing Myspace, Facebook and countless other networking social websites with or without their parents' knowledge.  As a parent, you either get involved, learn the scoop, monitor your child or face severe dangers for not doing so!  Simply banning your kids from Myspace (or any other social network) will not solve the problem.  THIS IS LAZY PARENTING!! Kids will access the site at friend's homes, school, or via their cell phone if they have this capability.  GET INVOLVED!!

Try picking up a computer, learning a few things, get your own profile and be active in your child's life.  You can be on their Friend's list, you can monitor the comments that are left for them and see the comments they leave for others.  You also can make sure their profile is set to private and that they are not posting provocative pictures!

I can't tell you how many "good kids" i've seen profiles about that murder their reputation, and subject themselves to harms -way by posting all of their private information.  Where are THE PARENTS?? 

Get out of the dark ages, parents, and accept that we have come to new age of technology advancements that our past generations didn't have access to.  This means a little effort on your part.  This means not judging why kids are doing what they are doing - the fact is they are doing it.  They like it. 

No excuses by parents NOT being involved should be tolerated.  The step-by-step instructions are given.  You just have to take a little time to read them; therefore, if you are reading this, you can do it!

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I recenlty read this quote - "Charity sees the need, not the cause."  I wasn't quite sure how to interpret it?

Does this mean "Charity ONLY sees the need, and not the cause?"

or does it mean "Charity SHOULD ONLY see the need, and not the cause?"

The cause are things we all probably don't want to admit up to, drug addiction, bad personal decisions, laziness, poor education.  Or sometimes the causes are the things out of our control - natural disasters, health issues, or even death of a loved one that can quickly swing us into a need of charity.

My question is - How should we read this quote?  Is one way better than the other? 

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As a legal custodial guardian and natural parent with three children attending the Garland Independent School District, I am now required to undergo an invasive background check to attend any in-school or extra-curricular activity. The district claims this is in the "best interest and safety" of the student body.

Let me make it very clear, I am capable of passing a background screening. My primary concern is that extreme flaws in the background process is subjecting my child to unnecessary dangers and is a clear violation of my parental rights and invasion of privacy. I feel that many parents and legal guardians involved in G.I.S.D. share this common concern, but little attention has been brought to the matter.

Did you know the background application does not require any proof of identification? You can complete the application using any name you want! Yes, most of us law-abiding citizens would not lie on a background form, but child predators will go to any lengths to surround themselves with un-suspecting victims. Did you also know that when I witnessed the "sign in" process at the school's front desk, that there is no identification required to prove that you are who you say you are. Yes, this means any person can walk into the school office, give any name they want, and as long as it appears on the list, you are granted full access to the school body! Imagine "DAD" being approved and "BAD UNCLE BOB" giving "DAD's" name when he walks in and nobody's checking him out to make sure that he's "DAD". BAMB...you have just submitted my child and all of the student body to extreme danger because of a flawed process.

Most informed citizens know that child predators are not caught until numerous crimes have occurred, or in some cases never caught. The background form simply asks what 5 counties have you previously lived in. Does GISD seriously think a convicted child predator will voluntarily provide this information if they are convicted in another state or county?

Either GISD is wearing blinders or they truly believe they are doing a good deed. I agree that protecting our children is every person's responsibility. It is also the responsibility as a parent and not just a right to be an active participant in my child's education and safety without the invasion of privacy used by the district for their "band-aide" fix in an attempt to gain a better image in this day of increased concern.

Imagine for a moment, you as a legal guardian are denied access to be with your child during school hours when he/she is required by law to be there, all the while the outsmarted district is allowing predators to literally walk in off the streets and gain access to all kids!

Is it not the courts that can take away my right to supervise my child at any given time? Since when did a local school or staff member obtain this power to deny me access to my child? Would I be a legal guardian if I had committed a grave crime against my child? Obviously, no! I would not be able to be anywhere near my child. This would be made sure by the court, not a school district.

I strongly encourage GISD to review, test and change this policy. Either fix it or abolish it. It is nothing but a waste of valuable tax-dollars and resources in the context of its existence today.

Since I am not willing to lie on a background form and because of fear of criminal prosecution if I tried to "test" this system and prove it is insufficient, I would dearly appreciate anyone who has the means to help change this policy.

I was taught growing up that it does no good just to complain. If you want to make a difference, then you need to offer a solution. If you are interested in this read and taking the time to review my offered solution, I greatly admire you as a caring individual.

The Background Check as it is today:

Fill out the form. Use any name you want. Yes, you will be held accountable to swearing the information is true! But does a convicted child predator really care?

Go to the school's front office - give them any name or use the bogus or real name from the background form you completed. If you were approved with the information you gave, you will be given a "official seal of approval" and granted access to the student body. NO identification will be checked to ensure you are who you say you are. You are free to roam about the building.

The Background Check I hope for:

You go straight to the front school's office. You are required to provide proper photo identification. You give your child's name or the child you are visiting (in case you're a grandparent). If you come up as the child's legal guardian - a right given by the courts and giving birth - then you are granted full access to your child without undergoing any invasive background screening. A screening won't be necessary because you will not be listed as the "legal guardian" if you are indeed a very bad person. The COURT not a GISD staff member would have taken this away.

If you are NOT a legal guardian, then you must complete a background form in front of a GISD staff member, sworn as an affidavit, and provide a copy of your photo identification. If you are approved, then you will be added to that child's "safe list."

Is this a fix all solution? No, obviously every staff member must maintain heightened supervision when "outsiders" are present. We all know that no background check is fool proof. But this will help deter the bad guys from outsmarting a blind district. If one is required to give their photo identification at the time of checking in, they may think twice about giving up their real identity in fear of being caught!

I hope this is not coming across as simply an opportunity to rant and rave. I truly fear my parental rights have been compromised, my invasion of privacy intruded upon, and a truly flawed system is creating an environment for the "bad people" to access an entire student body because of a poorly designed system.

I know this can be easily corrected. But you can't fix something that the District won't admit is broke. I truly hope that those involved with this matter will swallow their pride and take the action necessary to create a safe learning environment for all children while preserving every parent's right and privacy.

This is do-able!!

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I am an inspired individual who enjoys sharing ideas to promote a safer and better community in the best interest of all citizens. I am a mother of 3 children, I work full-time (love what I do) and believe that you have to take a stance and express your viewpoint sometimes even when it's not popular. This is a gr8 venue for expressing these viewpoints. I enjoying sharing thoughts with you all on FOX4! Thank you FOX4 for making this possible!

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