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So today a high school coach was arrested for beating his wife. Last week a high school coach was killed in his car in the company of a woman of ill repute. I understand human frailty. I get the whole thing about pressure But Honestly. With all the stuff in the media about teachers and malfeasance

WHAT WERE THESE GUYS THINKING?????? 

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eddievaliant read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 8:22 AM

When coaches are treated like rock stars, they start acting like it. Parents make ridiculous decisions for their family like move to a particular school district just so their kids can play for a coach or worse, hold their kids back for extra size and maturity.

I came to Texas in 1980 before my junior year, the first thing we learned was the head coach, with his 3-7 record, was paid more than the principal. He was a terrible coach and a bad guy. My previous school had great coaches who really cared about us. And guess what? that school had more players make it to D1 schools than the school I went to in Texas.

Coaching is a noble profession with a great deal of responsibility. The good ones (and I don't mean those who win) should be praised and the bad ones should go live under a bridge.

KellerKowboy read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 12:26 PM

Ya just can't say it much better than that, Eddie.

Like it or not, coaches from the earliest age become "looked up to" by children. If that's being a role model, so be it.

In Texas, some coaches in many sports are building their resume, in hopes of moving onward and upward into the college and pro ranks and the big bucks that go with it.

Education, for them, is a distant second on their list of important things. That's not good.

My high school basketball team won four consecutive State Championships. That fact had absolutely NO bearing on college or the living of the rest of our lives. Our EDUCATION did -- 100%. Our priorities are terribly askew.

eddievaliant read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 1:15 PM

Keller, my earliest interaction with a coach was when I played my first year of pee wee football. I got discouraged and had my mom take me to practice with the full intention of quitting. The coach talked me out of it, saying I should finish out the season and if it still wasn't fun then I should just not play again. He gave me a lecture about quitting, being a man etc. I'll bet he forgot about it as soon as it ended and has no idea how important it was for me and how I still remember that conversation to this day.

My dad was in Southeast Asia at the time or he would have been the one to deliver that message. Just goes to show you how important a good coach CAN be.

I told that story on another post somewhere but thought it worth repeating given the subject.

KellerKowboy read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 1:36 PM

It's a great example, Eddie. And there are thousands more stories out there just like yours. A little league baseball coach took me aside one day and gave me a tip on hitting. My batting average took off like a rocket and I never, ever forgot that little tip he took me aside to explain.

If you're wondering what he said; "Hit the top half of the baseball. The pitch is coming to you on an angle and if you try to hit the top half of the ball, you'll actually hit it squarely". I took his advice and started hitting line-drives all over the place.

It sounds a little silly, but that's the type of thing a good coach will do for every kid he/she comes in contact with during the course of their coaching careers.

TexasTruBlu read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 3:40 PM

Anyone who wants to better understand why America is so messed up should read the book "Friday Night Lights." (Do not think that the show has even an inkling of similarity. They didn't even shoot it in Odessa-hence the presence of things like actual trees and lawns.)It's not just about football, it's about messed up priorities, people who are elevated beyond their abilities to handle and parents who seem to think the end justifies the means. Last year the Dallas Morning News did a story comparing football coaches salaries. Success didn't seem to be much of a factor, but many got two times over or more what a teacher with comparable experience in the classroom makes. And only due to law that principals make more that head coaches. On some campuses, the head coach does nothing except coach football. I am not saying it's not stressful or that they don't work extra hours, but something is terribly wrong when our testing is based on academics but our extracurricular teachers get the highest pay.

KellerKowboy read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 3:49 PM

"... something is terribly wrong when our testing is based on academics but our extracurricular teachers get the highest pay."

This - my learned neighbor - is an accurate reflection of the public's desires and wishes.

Winning a state championship in football is FAR more important that winning the World Championship Scholar's Bowl.

I totally understand the importance of extracurricular activites and why it's a good thing to excell, but our priorities are totally messed up. Our elementary and high schools are little more than breeding grounds for college and professional athletes....and, sadly, only a very small percentage make the grade. The rest don't know their arse from a hole in the ground.

eddievaliant read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 4:13 PM

Tell me if this sounds familiar: "...coaches deserve it. Whether they win or not, they bring a lot of revenue to the school..."

There's your problem.

eddievaliant read my blog view my photos
Sep 1, 2007 | 6:58 PM

Or should I say "there's THE problem"

TexasTruBlu read my blog view my photos
Sep 2, 2007 | 12:27 PM

I think that is why so many districts have fought transparency in school budgets. The myth was that the football teams revenues "paid for everything". That simply isn't true. Factor in maintenance, light bills, facility bills, even the referees' pay and football is not a money maker except on the surface.

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I am a teacher, a mother and wife and I like to think I am a pretty good citizen. I read ALOT. I also write a good deal on various blogs. I appreciate a chance to respond to what we see in the news. I think that by posting our opinions we can probably find that everyone is more alike than we are willing to admit. Face it, people just like to argue. I would also like to say how much I appreciate having a forum for my views.

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