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I feel for the missing Mesquite's woman's family.  Hopefully, for the husband and daughter's sake she is found safe, and more importantly alive.  I can't help but think how selfish she is though!  Going to buy drugs?  Maybe she was doing that or not but if so she is certainly acting selfish on account of her little family.  Being a new Mother myself I would never, never in my right mind ever make a decision to do anything that would jeopordize my life and so on to affect my husband and children!  Hopefully everything turns out okay!
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sarahlivar read my blog
Jun 21, 2007 | 11:49 AM

Are you referring to Sabrina Barr, 37 year old that had 2 tattoo shops. Her bones were found this week and coroner says they has a positive I.D.

TexasTruBlu read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 11:55 AM

There are too many young women out there who seem to think that they are "safe" with any sort of person because they are their "friend". We saw this with the girl from SMU who went off to find drugs with "friends" and now we see a mom go off with "friends" to once again score a hit. Drug addicts are nobody's friend. They will sell you out if they see a chance to make money to support their own sick habits. I feel sorry for the family that had to go through this type of tragedy, but until some women get over this idea that they are impervious, we will continue to see these types of sad stories.

scottbee1948 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 12:32 PM

This is sad. From all the info comming out it doesn't look too good.

Heard on the noon news that a person fitting her discribtion had been seen leaving a known drug house in Oak Cliff.

I'm sure her family must be devastated.

lec2427 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:20 PM

Sarah, I'm not sure what her name was, all I know of it was her actions..I can't believe that she would endanger her life like that.

lec2427 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:22 PM

Yeah, I'll be praying for her family tonight because of their loss. However, how sad her daughter will have to grow up without a Mother.

scottythecomic read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:26 PM

Her name is Michal. I bet you she's on a drug binge (crack or meth) and will return when she's out of money, hospitalized, burned out, or found dead. By the way, all the aforementioned are why it's called DOPE.

Dalejrfan8 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:30 PM

Having helped my aunt raise her oldest granddaughter most of her life because her mother was a drug addic, and her dad was just plain selfish, I can tell you it was probably the drugs more than it was being selfish. Stephanie was a good person and a good mother when she wasn't using drugs, however unfortunately her first husband abused her and so did my cousin. So it sent her in to a tail wind for a long time. She use to leave Kristin with someone when she would go on her drug benges, then she started taking her to the crack houses. When Kristin was little and she would be playing some of the things she said would just break your heart. Stephanie has been clean for almost four years now. Unfortunately the damage done to the relationship with her three kids is almost beyond repair, especially with Kristin. However despite all she went through growing up she graduated last month WITH HONORS and got a full scholarship to a really good nursing school. I can actually see both sides. Because as a mother I could never do that either, however you do your best to raise your kids right and sometimes when they get older the get out of control. My daughter has spent the last four years on meth, at a great cost to her father and I. It has cost us almost everything we had. The one thing I could never do was leave her on the streets. She lived there part of the time, however it was always when we didn't know where she was. June 12 she celebrated her first year of being cleaning. It was a very big deal for her, us as her parents, a couple of friends and my. However the rest of the family h

Dalejrfan8 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:33 PM

Sorry there was a problem. The rest of my family wrote her off a long time ago. My heart really goes out to this family. Having someone you love on drugs go tear a whole family a part. I'm sure a one time this lady was a good person and mother, somehow she lost her way and the drugs took over. It is truly sad to lose someone that way.

sarahlivar read my blog
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:37 PM

Great story Dale, I know a girl, we will call her Amy. She once toured with Kirk Franklin, did the whole church thing, married, 2 gorgeous boys, new house. You get the picture of perfection by now, her life has been totally wasted on Meth, God help her. Her husband is gone, they divorced, she lost custody, they lost the house, tragedy. To this day she is still out there somewhere, family doesn't even know her whereabouts.

Definitely a tragedy when families are involved.

scottythecomic read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:39 PM

There are 20 million similar tragedies where drugs are concerned (including alcohol).

Dalejrfan8 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:43 PM

scotty you got that right. Alcohol affects just as many as drugs do. As most of you know my six year old cousin was killed by a drunk driver. Both are sad, senseless and preventable. I have been lucky so far. I still have my daughter. Meth just destroys your body. She doesn't even look like the same person, but I still have her and for that we are very grateful

UCantHandleThisTruth read my blog
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:46 PM

Dale, taking the drugs IN THE FIRST PLACE IS THE SELFISH ACT.

scottbee1948 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 1:52 PM

Dalejr that was a very touching story. Hope your daughter continues to be clean.

It is so sad what drugs can do.
They can tear whole families apart, and cause feelings to be hurt beyond repair.

God bless you and yours.

scottythecomic read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 3:18 PM

Dalejr, can you email me? My addy is on my blog bio.

babysister138 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 3:42 PM

Many families, are affected, by drugs. There is no boundry,low income, high income, Drugs don't care. The worst addictions, meth, heroin, are devastating.

scottythecomic read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 3:50 PM

The worst addiction is alcohol.

lec2427 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 4:12 PM

I guess what I believe is basically, its selfish for this particular woman to choose drugs over her own blood! There must be times where she's thinking clear to where you'd think she'd think, "wow, I wonder how me doing drugs affects my family"? I don't know anything about drug use having never done em' or any experience around them, but I know that I know now that I'm a parent I would do anything it took to get clean.

lec2427 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 4:15 PM

I realize addictions are powerful, however she has to WANT to get clean and get better...if not she doesn't need to bring an innocent child into the world to bear the brunt of her choices.

TexasTruBlu read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 4:43 PM

All addicts, no matter whether it's drugs or booze or sex or whatever, are in the magical thinking period that they can stop at any time. The thing is, that by the time their lives have crashed around them, they are often so physically enmeshed in the lifestyle that they really can't do it alone. Addicts by their definition are delusional.

Dalejrfan8 read my blog view my photos
Jun 21, 2007 | 7:16 PM

Ucanthandlethetruth
You maybe right maybe she was selfish. But if I had been a better mother maybe shouldn't have gotten in with the crowd she was hanging out and maybe she wouldn't have spent seven years with a convicted felon. In the past seven years we lost everything once and almost lost everything a second time 2 years ago. That is when we cut her off financially. I often wonder what would have happened to her if I had listened to my famiy. I have lived my whole life afraid that I my do something that would cause my parents to disown me. One Christmas my mother almost did all because I was for my aunt to get home with my daughter and I went to see my grandfather. I did not want my daughter to feel that way. Our relationship has been rocky but we still love each other. My family on the other hand has written her off. Maybe if I hadn't enable her all those years maybe she wouldn't have been selfish. Thirty years ago god blessed me with a wonderful husband. There are not many men that would do for thier wives what he has done for me that past seven years. Maybe I was the selfish one

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I'm a Mother, Wife, Sister, and Daughter. I love my life as I'm blessed with the Love and Devotion of a handsome man. Very grateful Christian who is more conservative than most. Love reading and writing, and taking care of my family.

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