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What do you think about what this woman did?  Do you think she was right in running with these 5 children who do not belong to her?

They are vitims of the Katrina Hurricane that she took in along with their mother.  She has housed them for over three years and this mother repaid her by stealing from her and and taking and wanting more.

I believe that she was doing it for the kids safety.  They have lived with her for a long time and says that she has witnessed the abuse to those children by the mother along with the drug use.

Maybe she could have reported it sooner, but, what would the mother have done if she did and the authorities did nothing of it.  Would they have been put into danger along with her for trying to help them?

What do you think should happen with these babies?

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Mother of 5 kidnapped children, caretaker dispute events 


HOUSTON  --  A woman accused of kidnapping five children said she did so because their biological mother had threatened her life but now says she plans to surrender to police, a newspaper reported.

 Houston authorities issued an Amber Alert on Wednesday in connection to the abduction of the Houston children. The Harris County District Attorney's office charged Rhonda Tavey, 44, with five counts of kidnapping. Tavey said she planned to surrender to authorities on Thursday but no additional details were provided about when she would do so.

Tavey, who is white, said all she ever wanted was to do God's will and that she also took the children, who are black, for their own safety. She said their mother, Erica Alphonse, was "abusive."

Tavey said last month she found her bank statements in the purse of Alphonse, whom she had opened her home to after the Louisiana family was devastated by Hurricane Katrina three years ago.

"When I confronted her with that, she pulled a knife and threatened to kill me. That's when I made arrangements to get the kids out," Tavey said Thursday in an online edition of the Houston Chronicle.

The newspaper reported that Alphonse denies pulling a knife on Tavey and said Tavey is lying to damage Alphonse's reputation.

"I wouldn't have thought in a million years she'd have done this to me," Alphonse said Wednesday night from her aunt's Southwest Houston apartment.

The women said they worked out an agreement after meeting in Reliant Park, where Tavey had been volunteering for the American Red Cross after the hurricane. Their arrangement called for Tavey, who has two teenage daughters, to care for Alphonse's two boys and three girls who are ages 3 to 8, while Alphonse sought work to become self-sufficient.

Alphonse, calling Tavey her family's "guardian angel" after Katrina's devastation, said she told Tavey she wanted to return to her New Orleans hometown eventually, even though Tavey prayed they would remain in Houston.

Alphonse said she returned to New Orleans two years ago and left the children in Houston. She returned this summer and their arrangement turned sour, culminating in the charges against Tavey.

"I had gotten her a job, a car, set her up in an apartment," Tavey said. "I'd helped her do all that when she decided she needed to go back."

Harris County District Attorney's office spokeswoman Donna Hawkins told The Associated Press constables had contacted Tavey's attorney before filing charges against her on Monday but the woman refused to return the children.

The children are identified as:

-- Rod Keesa Alphonse, age 8,

-- Alaysa Alphonse, age 6

-- Yasmine Alphonse, age 4

-- and twin boys, Eric and Erin Alphonse, who turned 3 on Monday.

Tavey is believed to be driving a blue 2004 Chrysler Town and Country Van, Texas License: 963-PTB. Officials say Tavey may be in the Dallas-Fort Worth areas.

 

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furbie read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 7:59 AM

It's a shame that Tavey couldn't get help for those kids through legal channels.

Running off with those children may have been a big mistake, but she was thinking only of the safety of those kids.

Just hope she gets a good lawyer (if they make them), and gets off. It's that mother that needs to be locked up !

terrellmom read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 8:08 AM

She should have called 911 then she would not be facing prison time and she would have still helped the children

luvmykid read my blog
Aug 7, 2008 | 8:13 AM

TM...I think that she feared that she would not be helped.

After the mother leaving back to New Orleans and leaving the children with her, I believe she felt a closeness to them after caring for them for 3 years.

This mother was in and out during the 3 years. And, you know that with the way our system works, they never would have gave those babies to her.

Number one reason: the system seems to think that black babies belong with their own race.

I heard that so many times when I was working in family law. It was one of the saddest things. These children aren't looking at their own skin color, let alone the color of the one who is caring for them and giving them the love they desire and need.

I hope that she gets a good judge that understands what she was trying to do and sees everything she has already done.

TexasTruBlu read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 8:57 AM

I really feel sorry for this woman and the children. The children appear happy and very attached to the lady. I think she very sincerely felt that the mother would take these kids back to a situation where they would suffer neglect or worse. I know that social workers don't like placing children of color with anglo foster parents. The mother is 22 for heaven's sake, with five LITTLE kids and what appears to be a live in boyfriend. Individually those factors could be detrimental, together they could be catastrophic.

phrankw read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:14 AM

Even though the real mother is a loser, and even though this lady seems very sweet for what she's done, she's still wrong because she didn't take the proper steps.

NORTHTX read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:23 AM

You have to wonder why the real mother waited so long to deceide to come back after tha length of time. Did welfare find out she didn't have the kids and were going to cut her off?

I agree the woman should have taken the proper steps and avoided a lot of problems. She has children (albeit older) of her own. Now, who will take care of them.

LMK, you raised a question in my mind. With many kids being mixed race these days, how would that be handled? Do they send half of the kid with one race and half with the other? If a kid is housed, feed, loved and all other needs met, what difference does the race matter?

babysister138 read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:29 AM

Seems the woman was hoping to help the kids, perhaps taking them away was the only way she could bring attention to the situation, since CPS seems to return children to abusive situations,"because they Belong with the mother."

scottbee1948 read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:33 AM

Evidently the mother needs a class in birth control 101. Five kids at age 22 is a bit too many kids. Maybe there could have been a better way besides cutting and running, but guess she felt pressured for time. Just hope the kids get put in a place where they can have the love and kind of home they deserve and need. I think the woman really loves the children.

luvmykid read my blog
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:54 AM

I don't think she will be in that big of trouble. I think that they will look into the case with a fine comb. (well, I'm praying that they do)I think that she will get a slap on the hand, but, most importantly, I hope that they really investigate the mother of the kids.

In most of the cases that I saw when working in family law, they try to say that the child is better off with the "other" side. One of the arguments is that they can better learn their "roots" that way and since they have "special" needs in knowing how to care for them.

I know that it should not make a difference. But, it is a "trump" card that they tend to use to try and get the "mixed" child to the race they think it should go to.

My neice has mixed children and yes, there are things that need to be done differently. But, she has learned how to care for them properly by asking questions. She does a very good job by them. And, even I have learned since I took her in when the deadbeat dad left them.

luvmykid read my blog
Aug 7, 2008 | 9:55 AM

Btw..I also wanted to say...

It looks like she did a very good job of caring for them on her own. They look very well taken care of and loved.

I guess the mother did fear losing whatever benefits she was getting because of the children...if she was receiving any.

2tickets2paradise read my blog view my photos
Aug 7, 2008 | 11:05 AM

I don't think she should have run with them, she should have reported them as abandoned when the mother abandoned them and try to get formal custody of them.

I do not believe the children should be released back to the mother, which has proven she is unstable, 22 years old with 5 children also shows she is irresponsible. I hope the authorities aren't too hard on the lady who took the children, you can tell she had the childrens best interest at heart and I hope something can be arranged to where she can get them back, they are much better off with someone who actually cares about their well being and will go to the lengths this lady did, to keep them.

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